a Reason, a Season & a Lifetime

People come into you life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFETIME.......

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an inconvenient time, this person will say or
do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
They prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build up in order to have a solid emotional foundation
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.


*Dearest YOU,
Thank you for being part of my life,
whether you were a reason, season or a lifetime.*